It was the winter of 1968 and aside from the Beatles, nothing on earth was bigger than The Monkees. In my house, however, The Monkees were everything. I didn’t really catch up to how life-changing The Beatles were until later. I think I knew the words to “Daydream Believer” and “I’m Not Your Steppin’ Stone” before I could speak in complete sentences. I….freaking….LOVED…The Monkees. I watched their show on TV every Saturday and begged my parents to buy me every record. One Christmas I even got the Matchbox car version of the Monkeemobile.
My father was friends with a guy in Chicago who did radio promotion, and that winter of ’68 he called my dad and said, “Isn’t your son a huge Monkees fan? I’m doing a radio event with them tomorrow. Would he want to meet them?” So my dad, God bless him, got me out of my first grade class and brought me downtown to the station. Peter Tork had just left the group but the other three were performing a concert the next night and doing radio to promote the show. I walked down a hallway and spotted Mike Nesmith first. My heart pounded a little faster. He was busy signing album covers but squeaked out, “Hey, kid,” with a smile. Around the corner came Mickey Dolenz, who actually spent 90 seconds talking to me and was very friendly. This was exciting for me, too, but I recall that I looked right at Mickey and said, “Where’s Davy?”
Davy Jones was, aside from Elvis, my boyhood hero. I loved The Monkees, yes….but it was all about Davy. He was so cool. His clothes, his moves, his voice, and he ALWAYS got the girl. I wanted to meet Davy more than anything.
You know that thing about meeting your heroes and how it can often be a total letdown? This was the polar opposite. The radio guy brought me into another room at the station and there sat Davy Jones, alone. He was only about 5′ 4 but when he stood up he seemed 6′ 6. He was handsome and had this big smile on his face. This was one of the most famous people on the planet and it was just me and him. He’d been told I was a big fan (how unique!) and he asked me lots of questions about myself and my family and what I liked at school, etc. Davy sat and talked to me for about 15 minutes. He drew a picture on a piece of paper and signed it for me, and put his arm around me as I left, giving me a hug.
He couldn’t have been more who I wanted him to be in that moment.
About 3 years ago I played a show in Pennsylvania outside Philly. I landed at a regional airport and was at baggage claim waiting for my bag, and one of the eleven people standing there waiting with me…was Davy Jones. He was as handsome as ever. I walked up to him and said, “Excuse me, Mr. Jones?” He looked at me and got this huge smile and before I could say another word he said, “Wow! Richard Marx!!! Man, I love your stuff!!!” I forced my brain to put that on hold and I said, “I’m so glad to see you because I have a story for you.” I told him every detail about how sweet and kind he’d been to me 40 years before, and he was genuinely happy to hear it. He told me about his kids and the farm he lived on in Pennsylvania and that he was all about horses. (I remembered he’d almost become a professional jockey in his youth.) And he said he still loved to perform. He said, “We’ve just got to keep doing it, right, man? It’s who we are.”
We said goodbye and that we both hoped we’d meet again. Hearing of his passing today from a heart attack has made me so sad, but so grateful to have a story like this about him to share. Just a few months before I met him in 1968 I was in my first grade class and it was “Show and Tell” time. The teacher called on me even though I wasn’t volunteering, and I said I didn’t have anything for her. She said, “Your parents told me you that you like to sing. Will you sing a song for the class?” I didn’t want to, but my legs somehow got my body to the front of the group, and everyone got quiet. I was brutally nervous and wasn’t even sure what to do. And then I just went with the one song I knew by heart: “I Want To Be Free” by The Monkees, sung by Davy Jones. It was the very first song I ever sang in front of anyone. I haven’t sung it since that day but I wanted to sing it today…for Davy.
God rest his sweet and kind soul.
RM
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Wow, what a great tribute. Long live Davy Jones.
Oh Richard…simply beautiful! Thank you!
What a wonderful remembrance
Beautiful story. I was also a huge Monkey’s fan and was so sad to hear the news today. All of us ladies took a few minutes out to discuss our favorite Monkey — and how funny that show was. I’m glad that you were able to meet him and that he was so kind. I’m guessing you are that way w/your fans too. I just saw you the other night when you played in Bremerton. It was absolutely incredible.
What an awesome story !!!
I also was a big Monkees fan and of course Davy Jones was my favorite. As a little girl, I always wanted to marry him !!!
Thanks for sharing !!!
P.S. Love your music as well, Stories To Tell is Great !!!
This is the sweetest story. Thank you soo much for sharing, on such a sad day. You made me smile through my tears. RIP Davy.
A beautiful tribute, Richard. Thank you.
Amazing and heartwarming story. Loved reading it and loved listening to your tribute. RIP Davy Jones – sounds like you were an inspiration…
Beautiful story Richard, thank you for sharing. I too was a huge Monkee fan. Despite my parents objection of spending my allowance on bubblegum it was the Monkee cards I wanted so I could complete the picture puzzle of all four of them on the back. RIP Davey Jones.
thx for sharing this wonderful memory. He was a sweet man and hearing stories from his friends, fans or just brief encounters are very warming to my heart.
What an wonderful and cherished memory for you to have Richard. Thanks for sharing.
mr marx,
I have been a fan of yours for years but i have never heard you sound so good as you did on this tribute,I am also a fan of the monkeys. As a child i watched the monkeys once a week and like most young ladies i loved davy jones,I’d just like to thank you for a wonderful memory.
to davy jones god bless you and rest in peace.
This is beautiful. Davy will be pleased and smiling down!
Today is a very sad day, indeed. The world has lost a real showman, and there aren’t that many left. I’m so glad that you had the chance to connect with Davy-I wish I’d been as lucky. I know he’s gone to a better place, but we’ll always miss him here…
Beautiful song..beautiful story..I cried today upon hearing of the passing of my childhood idol. It was raining here on Long Island today….I think Heaven cried too.
Wow, what a lovely story. Thanks for sharing it with us, Richard. Davy Jones was from my hometown of Manchester in England. The next time you tour the UK, if you play Manchester ( and i hope you do ), I would love to hear you share that story again with the audience. Davy Jones was a very well loved person in the UK, especially Manchester. Thanks again Richard. RIP Davy Jones.
Lovely, the sentiments and the song. If you were to add it to a set list, I don’t think anyone would complain… Thank you. It truly is a sad day.
very very nice
thank you – xoxo
Wow. That was beyond amazing and touching. You made me cry. Thank you.
Richard, you are such a class act!! There is no coincidence as to why I love you and Davy both as artist and people. You loved the Monkees as much as I did! What a touching tribute to Davy…you made me cry all over again, although nothing new for how your music affects me too. Thank you for that! Thank you for your story, I will hold that in my heart forever. God Bless you and may Davy RIP. Much love always!! XOXO
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I so enjoy your music and your voice! Thanks so much for this tune. You’ve done Davy proud. We have been blessed in this world to have such talents such as you and Davy Jones. God bless you, Richard!
Like you Richard, I was a huge fan of the Monkees, though I am a bit older than you. Thank you for posting this video performance and personal story of what Davy meant to you. Very nice. We are a little sad today too in my home hearing this news. Life is so dang short. 66 is just too soon.
John
Thanks for sharing Richard. What a wonderful story.
That is a fantastic story and thanks for posting. I like your version too! Many memories…
Thank you Richard for your story of meeting your idol, not everyone like myself gets the chance. As a young girl he was always my favorite “Monkee”! I was at work today and one of the girls said oh Davy Jones died, and I jumped from my chair and said WHAT!! No way and tears filled my eyes. (they were shocked at my reaction, but music has always been apart of me, even yours, lol) He was my youth, I loved his voice and their music! Some of My favorite songs are “Valerie”and “When love comes knocking at your door”
Thank you for your version of “I wanna be free” it is a great tribute to Davy! As I watched you sing I could tell it was coming right from your heart!! It meant so much to me because I love your music soooo much too! Never stop, cause till my last breath I’ll be listening…..I love you!!
I am sitting here in tears because I understand completely about meeting “a hero” and having it turn out to be so much more than you ever expected. Your tribute is from the heart and simply perfection. Thank you for sharing with us, your fans.
That was beautiful … very touching
That was an awesome story! Thanks for sharing!
Hey Richard, lovely rendition and a really great story. From one Daydream Believer to another, thanks for sharing ……………..
G
thank you richard for that performance. your voice has always been one of my absolute favorites. but you can hear the heartbreak in it as you sing i wanna be free. thanks for sharing a part of you life with us. rip davy, we’ll love you forever.
Richard… this is just so sweet and heartfelt… had been able to hold off the tears until now… thank you for sharing it and giving us even more reason to love both you and Davy
You can see the sadness in your eyes. Music and cooking are my safe Places to go to. This was from the heart. He must know how much he will be missed.
Thank you for sharing this sad time . Lisa
So happy you got to meet such a nice man. We’ll miss him!
My personal memories of Davy come from a few years back when I was working as a paramedic and bumped into him in a little roadside store near Devon, PA. We had pulled the ambulance up to a place that looked like a country store so I could run inside for a cup of something hot to warm myself. I was mumbling to myself as I looked over the selection of tea bags on the counter, and a lovely, lilting English voice said, ” I’m fond of this one…try it.” Turning around, I came face to face with Davy Jones’ boyish smile. (Davy, along with Bobby Sherman and Rick Springfield, were my first crushes.) I have worked behind the scenes in the music business and I am not one to be starstruck, but that day, I was momentarily a smitten preteen who had come face to face with one of her idols. What followed was a conversation about tea and his horses, one of his many passions. It was one of several brief encounters I had with this gracious, gentle man over the years.Some people just enrich your life for no other reason other than who they are. Davy was one of them. I’m glad he got to hear your story, Richard. I know it made him happy.
Richard, thank you SO MUCH for that tribute to Davy Jones. I too was an epic Monkees fan and was really bummed that I missed their last concert at Mohegan Sun. I always referred to them as “Those Long Haired Weirdos” ~ even in their later years.
When I heard of his passing, I have to admit I had a lot of “anger” – anger because such a wonderful person was once again taken too soon.
While watching your vlog and listening to you sing, I just closed my eyes and sang along softly, as a tear rolled down my cheek.
I could actually remember the episode where that song was played – I believe he was walking alone on the beach while it played.
Anyway, thank you. I know this sounds a little cheezy, but I am not “angry” anymore – in a way, you helped me say “goodbye” to a wonderful artist and entertainer ~ and I can’t think of a better song to play than “I Wanna Be Free.” I know in my heart that he is looking down on you and smiling.
Thank you.
Amazing tribute to a great person who bought lots of happiness to everyone. He will be missed.
Thankyou so much Richard.
Beautiful tribute, Richard. Thank you.
What a beautiful tribute! Thanks Richard!
I also loved the Monkeys and especially Davy Jones. Thank you for sharing your memories and experiences. You too, RM, are a special and kind person. Thanks for all you do! Love your tweets and blogs.
Thanks Richard, your story was very touching & I could totally relate to it. I loved The Monkees more than The Beatles as a kid & had every one of their albums, I still may have some! I won a contest last year to meet Barbra Streisand & it was almost one of those moments too. I had such a mixed bag of emotions – but just like Davy was with you, she was a complete sweetheart & I blogged about my experience. Check it out if you get a moment, I’m sure it was a very similar situation to yours that you may enjoy… thanks again for sharing. My Barbra Meeting link is http://www.nyc2suburbia.com/2011/07/main-event-meeting-barbra-streisand_22.html
Excellent rendition of “I Want to be Free” … I, too, was a huge Davy fan and shed a tear when I heard of his passing. Thank you, Richard, for putting it into words.
Absolutely stunning. Nothing further needs to be said! Thanks.
Thank you so much for sharing this. What a beautiful story and a beautiful version of a great Davy song.
Thank you.
Beautiful tribute Richard. It is nice to see him remembered in a fitting way. He will be sorely missed….
Beautiful Mr Marx!
This is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing! My David Jones personal story maybe isn’t as awesome, but I grew up adoring him and the Monkees and met him 8 years ago, giving him a hug and kiss! 8) We have the Monkees DVD collection and ironically JUST watched Head again last night. I have been sad and crying all day. You are right Mr Jones was a sweet and kind as well as funny and talented man. A part of our childhood has died today… 8,(
Just beautiful!
That was a wonderful story and tribute Richard. I was a huge Davy Jones/Monkees fan. I remember arguing with my older cousin saying the Monkees were much better and way cooler than the Beatles and to me they were. I too watched every episode of their show and later on with my daughters on Nick at Night. I’m glad to hear that he was gracious to you when you met him but I’m not really surprised. Thank you too for sharing your wonderful music with all of us.
Cindy
RM, thank you so much for sharing your experience. It always amazes me when I struggle to get my arms around something that someone like yourself can put your arms around it, express it so well, and give someone like me, some peace in dealing with this loss. My prayers to his wife and girls as they deal with this sudden loss. From another crazy kid from Chicago…
What a great story…! Very well said..he was a hero and idol to a lot of people. The world lost another great soul today. Thank you for the perfect tribute.
You so made me cry. Thanks for sharing with us.
Beautiful story & beautiful tribute Richard…
Your meeting with him is how a lot of us feel when we get to meet you…so glad that you can totally relate to that.
Much respect always.
RIP Davy (my 1st crush when I was 6 years old)
Absolutely beautiful. Thank you Richard.
Thank you for that heart felt tribute to Davy. Of all things said about him your video is the one that got to me.
All the best,
Ed Reilly
thanks for sharing that story richard !! Please take care of yourself and your family !! May God bless you and your family !! sorry for the family and friends and fans of Davy Jones !!
What a touching, beautiful story, Richard. Thank you for sharing, and for the rendition of “I Want to Be Free.”
What a wonderful story! I saw the Monkees in Binghamton NY around 1986-88. The security guard was blocking me from taking photos, so Davy came to the edge of the stage and held my hand and sang to me. I could smell his polo cologne — he was to me.
He was always my favorite Monkee and from the kindness he showed that day, I will never forget him.
What a beautiful version of ‘I wanna be free’. Thank you for sharing your gift of music with us.
May Davy rest in peace — He will be greatly missed.
Richard:
Heartfelt thanks for your story/tribute to Davy Jones. It brought tears to my eyes. I, too, was a devoted Monkee fan, and of course Davy was my fav. So nice to hear that he was not only a great performer, but a genuinely nice guy, also.
What a beautiful tribute to Davy Jones. So nice for you to take the time to write so eloquently about your meeting with him (both times) and to share this with your fans. I think you were both cut from the same gentlemanly cloth (perhaps that is why as a tween I was a Davy girl & years later a Richard Marx woman). Thanks again!
So heartfelt and beautiful.
What a lovely tribute to Davy Jones.
Thank you for sharing such a special story.
Wow that was incredible. What a wonderful story. I’m so glad you had the opportunity to meet him twice. Thank you for sharing. What a special memory to cherish.
First time I hear this song. Truly a beautiful, soft and gentle version. May he rest in peace.
Wow! What a beautiful story. You and I were born the same year, same love of the Monkees and Davy Jones. A great tribute.
We who were teens in 1966 will always remember waiting (impatiently!) for the first show (on Monday); we were not disappointed!!!
My 27 year old son just pulled out a Boy Meets World episode with Pete, Micky and David for us. 17 years ago…
Your tribute is wonderful. Even from a distance, the world was a better place with him in it. Thanks for the music.
It does mean something.
R.I.P. Davy Jones. Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful memories, Richard. I cannot tell you how beautiful your cover of “I Want To Be Free” is. A fine and beautiful tribute!
What a very touching personal story… and what a wonderful memory to behold.
It touched my soul.
Thank you for sharing…
Brilliant.I can picture you being with Davy and feeling your excitement meeting your idol.You sang this song beautifully and I can feel your lose.Thankyou Richard for sharing it with us.
This was such a sweet article. It reminded me of Laura, a girl at my college. She has Tourett’s and struggles with other mental disabilities, as well as having to undergo dialysis every week because of medicine which was supposed to treat her mental health disorders. In addition to the admiration I have for her, pursuing a broadcasting career while struggling daily with physical and mental handicaps, I love hearing her Davy Jones story. Last year when the Monkees performed here in Cincinnati, she got to meet Davy Jones; it had been her life’s dream, and she always describes it as being the most memorable day of her entire life. Despite the difficulties she faces, she perseveres. It seems Davy Jones has that effect on people, haha. Anyway, the whole point of this long-winded note was simply to say that a) it was amazing to hear how a six-year old boy came to be admired decades later by his own childhood icon and b) my friend Laura, who is one of the bravest people I’ve ever met, would probably go crazy over a letter from Richard Marx about his own Davy Jones experience. Hope you’ll get an opportunity to read this. P.S., I loved “Right Here Waiting” when I was a teenager and it was one of the first songs I taught myself to play on the piano, ad nauseam I might add, haha. You sound just as good as you did 20 years ago. Keep up the great work!
Carol
What a moving and beautiful tribute to Davy Jones. This brought a tear to my eye. It’s sad to know Davy’s gone but how lucky we were to have had him in our lives~smiling,singing,laughing,always appearing cheerful. Davy leaves us with fond memories & terrific songs we all love to sing along with. I’m sure “Daydream Believer” was heard around the world today. Rest in peace, Davy. You will be missed.
Richard, thank you so much for the beautiful story and song. I had the privilege of hearing Davy sing it last summer and I know he’s smiling down at you with pride. Today is a sad day for all of us who grew up with The Monkees and who loved Davy. May he rest in peace.
Aloha, Richard.
In the heyday of all the Monkees craziness, I, too, along with my girlfriends, was a huge fans, and yes, Davy Jones was one of my favorites. Living in the 50th State way out in the middle of the Pacific didn’t stop us from gathering together every week that the show ran to ooo and ahhh and scream over every little thing we thought was adorable about Davy, Mickey, Peter and Michael.
I was also a closet musician, very shy in school, but around all my music pals, was always banging out some tune or other on the guitar that we all sang along to. Or when I was by myself, just going through lyrics of my favorite songs I’d written in one of those marble composition books, all written politically correct to the recording.(I remember one afternoon listening to the piano rift in the Carpenters “Bless the Beasts and the Children” and committing it to music transcription on staff paper just so I could say I knew how to play it.
Davy Jone’s “I Want to Be Free” was way up there on the songs I’d often play and sing by myself when no one else was around. One of my favorites, though I haven’t heard it in years until now.
Thank you for this beautiful tribute to Davy Jones. Thank you for sharing your childhood story of meeting him and the others. And for the airport story that took place so much later.
I myself am a music educator, teaching singing and chorus and teaching young people a musical play or two a year. And like you, waaaay back in my past, the Monkees played a huge part in the shaping of my music history. So did you, by the way
Mahalo a nui loa,
Nanilisa Pascua
Richard,
Davy brought me to tears seeing him perform just a year ago. That’s not supposed to happen to a
59 year old guy but it’s happening again listening to your rendition.
Thank you for sharing.
Robbie
Not a fan of your music, but that’s a great story. Thanks!
Just Beautiful…RM
Thanks so much for this loving and beautiful tribute to Davy. It was my favorite of his songs and you just made it a classic. Love you Richard and God Bless Davy!
Thank you so much for this beautiful tribute. I loved both the story and the song, and I could see, hear and feel the emotion you put into both. It’s also clear that you’ve never forgotten exactly what that song is supposed to sound like.
Davy Jones touched so many lives in so many ways. I’m glad that you had the chance to tell him how he’d touched yours. I’m sure it meant a lot to him. I regret that I never had a similar opportunity, but I feel blessed to have seen him in one of his very last concerts, just a week and a half ago in New York City. Although clearly tired, he was still the consummate entertainer, and he put on a terrific show, as always.
Wonderful story and wonderful memory! Thanks for sharing it!
Beautiful story and a beautiful way to remember Davy Jones. I am very touched by the outpouring of affection for him and have spent time going through my own memories of him.
How about a flip side Someone said you can cheat death but you cant escape death its really sad to hear of davy jones passing nice story of him thanks for sharing i was alway envy of marcia brady marcha marcha marcha
Thank you so much for this. I didn’t cry for him until I listened to you sing this song, so heartfelt. I’ve loved your music and Davy’s, and feeling them connected this way was a gift. Again, thank you.
Mr. Marx, I just wanted to tell you I really enjoyed your story about Davy Jones…what a great memory of your meeting him! I too LOVED The Monkeys, collected all their albums, and watched their TV show every Saturday morning. Davy Jones was my first crush….I was just sure I would grow up to marry him! I would invite my cousins over and we would all dance to The Monkeys music in our living room…we had a great time! I was very sad to hear that Davy Jones had passed. I was not fortunate enough to meet him, but in my mind I always thought he would be very sweet and kind…thank you for confirming what my 6 year old self had known from the start…and thank you for sharing your memories with us. Take care….Lynn Taggs
Thank You for sharing that great story. I watched the Monkees on TV as a child. I thought they were funny,cute,& had good music. I also liked Davy Jones. I think somehow his kindness or genuineness came across. You knew he was a good guy. I still remember his appearance on the Brady Bunch. He kisses Marsha on the cheek. I think Marsha says “I’ll never wash again”. As she holds her cheek. I was stunned when I heard the news of his passing. He was Young.
Wow, such a touching tribute. Thanks.
Thank you for such a beautiful tribute. Heartfelt thanks and condolences to all of us fans who have lost such a lifelong friend in music.
Absolutely wonderful story, thanks so much for sharing it!!
thank you for this–your tribute was nothing short of wonderful…
I met him when i was 12 in August 1986…very cool story…we were headed down to New Orleans from Baton Rouge for The Monkees concert in Audobon Zoo…due to our extreme excitement we stuck a sign on the back of my parent’s car that said “Monkee Bound!”
So we’re on our way and I look out the back window and I see a large RV behind us with a guy taking pictures of our sign…and I said “check out these hippees taking pictures of our sign!”….and the RV pulled up along side of us and they were all waiving…so we waived back…and then we realized that’s DAVY JONES! holy crap…I’m 12…my idol is waiving at ME…so of course I hyperventilate…
He waves us to follow and we meet up at their hotel…he was wonderful…very quiet and genuine…I was so freaked I couldn’t speak, my sister had to tell him my name…it was awesome. He could have blown right by with us none the wiser…but he didn’t…how cool is that?
I’ll miss him forever.
You never seem to surprise or dissapppoint me with the fabulous stories that you are kind enough to share with the rest of us. Thank you for being such a delightful human being!!! You were quite blessed to have met your idol. As I watched your blog, I could see the pain that is heavy on your heart. As a big fan of The Monkees, I am truly saddened as well. I do hope Davy Jones’ family will come across your post and see just how truly adored Davy Jones has been to the world! God Bless Davy Jones and God Bless you too Richard Marx for being such a phenomenal person…as well as musician!!
Love the tribute to Davy! I remember being young and singing and dancing to my aunt’s Davy Jones records! He will be missed!
Thank you for such a tender and touching tribute.
What a sweet and wonderful story!! I, too, was a huge Monkees fan and watched them every opportunity I could. I had all the records and all the fan stuff that I could find. As a young grade school girl of 6, Davy was the most handsome man I had ever seen! It’s touching that you sang “I Want To Be Free” for Davy…it shows your compassionate side and the respect you have for other artists, which makes me have even more respect for you. God Bless You and please continue to do what you do, for I will forever be a huge fan of yours also.
Thank you.
Well put, and well sung. The Monkee’s albums were some of my first, although I caught the re-runs in 1972-1975. Davy was uber-cool, and few years ago I bought the box set of some of their records. Although they didn’t write a good bit of their material, Boyce and Hart and the other writers really nailed it with the combination of great songs, a great production, the band, and of course Davy’s voice and charisma. I know Davy is honored by your memories of him and the tribute song. When I heard the news, I felt a piece of my childhood leave with him. He will be missed by a multitude of people throughout the world. Your story reminds me of two living people that unknowingly influenced my writing and instilled in me the drive to go into the record business as a writer and producer. Those two people are David Foster and you, Richard Marx. Foster and I haven’t met yet, but Richard, you and I have crossed paths a couple of times in Nashville, and we have mutual friends David Cole, and Kris Wilkinson. Thanks for the music, and best wishes on your continuing success.
-Mark
What a beautiful tribute, what a lovely story. I’m a Davy fan of about your age and remember how nice he seemed. It made me smile to read your story and to learn that he was just as nice as he seemed to be.
Thanks for telling it.
richard,
i produced peter tork’s solo cd, and did three duet cd’s with him. he introduced me to davy about forty years ago. and the davy you describe is the only davy i ever saw in all that time.
glad you posted this. helps everyone to remember who he was.
james
Geez this story and the song made me cry…..great stuff Richard !
Thank you for sharing that story with us. That is a very special memory. I went to an oldies concert in 2001. Did not get to meet him though. We will miss him a lot. Again thanks for sharing this song. You’ve always had a great voice!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this lovely tribute and for understanding what is in the hearts of so many of us. Bless you.
Richard,
What a terrific story. After Davey’s passing I learned that I WASN’T THE ONLY PERSON on the earth that LOVED him! isn’t that funny? I used to sit watching that show, over and over again, year after year and into reruns, thinking that they were playing only to me!
It made my heart sing, when you said that Davey Jones, not only KNEW who you were, but loved your Stuff. I love that, cause he was probably sitting at home listening to your stuff, thinking that you were only playing to him, like I thought he was only paying to me. Great story! and thanks!
Beautiful…may he forever live on in the hearts of all Monkees fans.
Such a beautiful story and a beautiful tribute. Thank you!
You just won a new fan.
Hey there Richard.. Nice work on the video man… I saw the Monkees 4 times during most of their reunions.. I missed a date in 1986 when they were first in Columbus Ohio. I got to hold Davy’s hand when he sang in front of me, at the Columbus Zoo in 1996 and that was so cool for him to come out and do that.. It Meant the world to me that he did that.. I never got the chance to talk to him about it.. Treasure the memories that you have.. Those will keep him in your heart and soul… You honored him well…
Al the best to you.. <3<3<3
What an awesome story, and a beautiful tribute to a fellow artist and idol. Thanks for sharing your memories with us. This is why you are one of my idols today.
Great story…Davy Jones apparently was a really good guy.
thank you. thank you. i understand and love your words today. thank you.
Thank you for sharing your story and your touching tribute to Davy…beautiful…..
RIP Davy – I’ll always see you smiling…
I loved this so much; your sweet story and lovely song. Today, I feel so many loving hands reaching out in the darkness, and it is a comfort. Thank you for sharing this with us.
This letter (and video) made my day. So good to hear that he was as nice as we all thought. Have always loved your music as well, and this version of “I want to be Free” is lovely.
Thank you very much for sharing your story and your song. I had to take a moment to really cry after I heard you sing “I Will Be Free.” It was just so beautiful and so fitting.
I remember when I was in high school, I had the biggest crush on Davy. I was 15 back in 1996 when I first heard about the Monkees. I was really late to the scene. I mean, I knew about the greats like Johnny Cash, Elvis, Buddy Holly and so on. But it was the Monkees who opened my mind to the Beatles and my love for the 60′s and rock music took off. It was one of my dreams to see them in person. One of our local stations held an oldies fest, and the Monkees were going to be one of the acts. I HAD to be there! I was happy beyond disbelief. I couldn’t believe I was actually seeing them live! Mike, unfortunately wasn’t there, but Micky, Peter, and DAVY were! It was one of the happiest days of my life, and I couldn’t believe it when a year or so later I won ticket to their show out at Billy Bob’s here in Ft. Worth, TX. I will never forget how much Davy and the guys widened my world. My life hasn’t been the same since. I even learned to play the tambourine because of him, and to this day I still shake the tambourine like him when “Last Train to Clarksville” comes on.
You,yourself, are also a big part of the soundtrack of my life. I’ve always thought you had such a beautiful voice. You’ve got a bad habit of pulling on the heartstrings.
Thank you again for sharing your story and your tribute to him.
Absolutely perfect. Thank you for your tribute to Davy Jones. I feel your sadness as I’m feeling mine.
Thank you forThank you Richard for sharing this touching story of your friend. It shows what a nice person Davy was as well as yourself. Hugs to you
Beautiful story, Richard, but pssst – No “E” in Micky!
What an epic story! I’m only 16 but my dad said when he was in grade 5 he was part of “The Monkees” fanclub.. I listened to one of their songs and since then I have every album they ever made and every tv episode. I feel sad but its good to know he’s in a better place.
I met you a few years ago on a cruise. It was picture-taking day and I walked up to you and said, “I think you’re magnificent.” You gave me a funny look and repeated what I said with a question mark. I said, “Yes, you are. Magnificent.” After reading and listening to this beautiful, stellar tribute to the wonderful Davy Jones, who brought me & many of my friends so much joy as well, I have to say – Mr. Marx, “magnificent” doesn’t even begin to describe you.
Just keep doing it. It’s who you are. Thank goodness.
Hi Richard, my name is Jamie Redfern – you’ve probably never heard of me, but I am an Australian entertainer (singer)and like many others (including my wife Judy)am a huge fan of your music. I too was fortunate enough to meet Davy many years ago when we did a couple of television shows together here in Australia. I agree with you, he was such a lovely guy, and had a beautiful and gentle soul.Hope life is being great to you mate, cheers Jim (Jamie Redfern)
This is a great story. Thank you for sharing it. Beautiful, beautiful job on I Want to be Free. Loved the Monkees.. loved Davy Jones.
Thank you so much for share such a beautiful and moving story. Lets us fan know that we are noticed and not forgotten. You and Davy, Mickey and Peter will always be special to me. Thanks
Wonderful story, beautiful song. Thank you so much, Richard.
ok. so I am obsessing over the passing of this gentle man. so far nothing that I have read has given me any relief from the pain. until now. until this beeeeautiful piece by RM. thank you so much Mr Marx, for easing the hurt with your heartfelt singing and message. I love your story from 1st grade and I love the part about the meeting at a Philly airport…. you have made Davy proud today, he is smiling on you.
Wow,what a great story. R.I.P. Davy
Chicago…concert…Peter gone already…I was at that concert, at the Auditorium Theater it was, in late April of 1969! So your recollections of ‘winter of ’68′ must be the same time frame. It is really a sad time for fans, thanks for sharing your story!
Dear Richard,
Thank you for sharing your story. I didn’t start to cry until I watched the video. Beautiful tribute. I’ve been so sad since hearing the news. Davy was an amazing entertainer and a sweet, kind person. Watching you sing touched my heart. Thank you for sharing your Monkee love with us. Davy Jones touched a lot of lives. It’s so wonderful to read the stories and see the tributes and understand how very much he was loved. Thank you.
Here here!
I’ve read so many people’s responses to Davy’s passing, and it is heart-breaking to read so many people say ‘a part of my childhood has just died’. It really is almost as simple as that. He meant so much to so many people, and not only leaves a great legacy of work, but of love.
And God bless your sweet soul for posting this, Richard. It’s gone around the fans who are mourning him so deeply. I have a feeling you will be paying that kindness forward your entire life. What a beautiful beautiful story…
jan
Beautiful, beautiful–both the words and song.
Wow! What a beautiful story…..Thank you so much for sharing it and doing this very touching video celebrating the life of Davy Jones. In some way, you became who you are today because of Davy’s inspiration. For that, I (and your fans) will be forever grateful.
I grew up watching The Monkees and The Brady Bunch. Just goes to show he was a sweet heart – to you and Marcia Brady! RIP
Thank you for sharing such a touching story.
Richard, if you actually read this I want to thank you so much for the heartfelt tribute to my friend Davy Jones. I have never heard the song sung with more feeling except for David of course. I am so blessed for the moments I had with him and even though it was sometimes months between the times I saw him and even though he has only been gone 2 days, I miss my friend.
I never met Davy, but have met Micky once and Peter Tork many times at his solo gigs. All of them can count themselves among the very nicest people in rock & roll. No celebrity pretenses…
just people doing what they love, playing music and entertaining (like Davy said “It’s who we are”). Great people doing great things…
Wonderful tribute, Richard. Everyone has been talking about their favorite “Davy” stories, but this is the most touching one I have heard. Beautiful rendition of a beautiful song. RIP, Davy. You are missed by all.
Richard that was such a beautiful story. I too am a big fan of Davy’s (and a fan of yours too). Your rendition of “I Want to Be Free” brought tears to my eyes. I got to meet Davy last year and he was such a wonderful man, he will be missed by many.
Thank you Richard for this lovely tribute. You have my tears flowing again. You sang it beautifully. What a dream come true. I wish I could have met him just once in my life. As with many other women my age, he was my first love from the time I was three years old. I have been broken-hearted for days now. By the way, back in my college days I was in a band and sang YOUR song “Don’t mean nothin’”… Thank you again.
That was beautiful and heartfelt. It brought tears to my eyes thinking of Davy Jones.
Thank you.
Hi Richard. This was one of the most beautifully written and performed posts I have read (and watched) for Davy. I was deeply saddened beyond words when I heard of Davy passing away. I fell in love with The Monkees and their TV show when I was a little girl 25 years ago when I was 9 years old. The Monkees were the first musical group I really took an interest in, and the first band I saw live in concert in the 1980s.
It was so wonderful to read about you sharing “I Wanna Be Free” to your 1st grade class. I, too, had a similar experience with the same song. “I Wanna Be Free” is one of the first songs I remember singing to someone because I loved the song so much and wanted to share it. Isn’t it lovely how that song has touched so many?
I had tickets to see The Monkees last summer, but was unfortunate to be a ticket holder of one of the few shows that were cancelled near the end of the summer. It makes me sad to now know that I will never get a chance to see Davy live in concert again. Like you, Davy was my particular favorite of The Monkees.
It really helps my heavy heart to read all of these lovely tributes and memories of how Davy has touched the lives of so many. Thank you for your loving words toward Davy…and your heartfelt performance of “I Wanna Be Free.”
I have to say this story moved me. It shows what an impact “heroes” can have on our lives. I am so glad Davy Jones was who he was and that you had the chance to tell him that.
Still sad about his passing.
Barry Hoffman
Thanks for a lovely story about my favorite band the Monkees (and Davy, of course!). I am about your age, so I know what you speak of about wanting Monkee stuff (I used to have a plastic hand-crank guitar with them on it…and wish I still had it!) and loving the show/band like you did when the show was first broadcast. I grew to love your music as well and been to a few of your concerts. I hope to hear more from you soon.
Thank you again, I’m grateful for you sharing your special memories of Davy…he was indeed a great man as I hoped he would be, throughout the years. We should all be so lucky to have someone in our lives like that…and to be like him, too.
Thats a beautiful story,,,I too was a huge Davy Jones fan…watched that show every day when I was little….even told everyone he was my cousin! I got picked on terribly…but I knew every word to every song, we didn’t have alot of money, so I never got yo get any records, but we had a radio and when one of there songs came on, I used to sing it loud and proud! He was my first crush….so you can imagine me years later when I had a band of my own
“Sooze & the Kidz” playing at Cesars Casino in Atlantic City, N.J…and Davy Jones was there also in the showroom,,,I got to go backstage and meet him, my heart was racing fast,like that liitle girl I once was, and he said “Hello Love, How’ve ya been”….like he knew me ..and I said, I was great now that I got to meet him in person, cuz I saw him everyday at 4 o’clock when I was a girl…I got a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and he gave me an autographed picture which I still cherish today…one of the best moments of my life, my favorite song was Valerie ….Goodbye my Davy, my heart goes out to his family, what a terrible loss ….he will be missed…..forever a fan …Sooze
What a sweet remembrance!! I’m 58, so I was just the right age for The Monkees to be my first teenage crush. My favorite was Mike, but I loved them all. So sorry Davy left us so soon. Thanks so much for sharing your story.
Wow. This was beautiful and SO much a true capture of what a kind man Davy was. Thank you for sharing this story.
Blessings to you.
Just listened to your song….you should release it….dedicate it to David. It is so sad. I am a fan and have a group of friends who go sometimes out of our way to see Davy. He was always so sweet to us, acknowledged us, bought us dinner, left gifts at our hotel for us, sent letters….amazing man. It is hard to be an “in between”…not close enough to be part of services, etc….but closer than most, experiences I would never trade….big hole in my heart.
Richard,
This is a lovely and fitting tribute to David. And my favorite song since forever. David was my first love and my great friend. He would be honored.
Warmly,
Linda
This is one of the nicest things I’ve read about Davy since his passing. I’m heartbroken at his loss and thank you for such a lovely tribute.
I am heartbroken at Davy’s loss but this is one of the nicest things I’ve read on him. It brought tears to my eyes. I can’t listen to your song – just yet – but I thank you for such a lovely tribute.
This is an absolutely beautiful story. I can’t stop crying. What a fabulous memory!
That was a beautiful story!!
+Rest In Peace+ DavY
You were a dedicated entertainer extraordinary person loving husband father to your two and four legged children.
You Are Truely MISSED:(
IT was an Honor to meet you and see you perform many times in the years.
Jane from NYC
Thank you so much for sharing that! I just loved him as well!
Wow, that was the sweetest most beautiful story. I will always remember growing with the Monkees. Davy definitely made an imprint on many people’s hearts. Thank you for sharing your story with us Richard.
This is the most beautiful tribute to Davy I’ve seen. The Monkees have touched more lives than they could have imagined. Thank you for this.
*tear* what a lovely tribute.. still sad but finding confomfort in all who remember him with the same love and respect as i do.. thx Richard.
I have chills. That was a beautiful story! Davy Jones will be missed.
I am speechless and heartbroken – this is achingly beautiful – both the music and the prose. Thank you, Richard, for sharing this with us.
Very nice video. When I heard that he had died I was trying to remember this song. It wasn’t as well known as their others, but my favorite. Interesting that you played it, although the video doesn’t seem to be up right now.
Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. It is amazing when the experience of meeting someone you admire turns out to be a positive one. Years ago I met you as a college student completing my degree. You took the time to allow me to interview you for our newspaper. I will always carry your kindness and time you gave on such a tight schedule. Thank you.
Hi Richard, best greatings from RUSSIA! THank u 4 sharing this story with all of us -like all u do it’s coming from your HEART – I’m sure. Here in Russia not so many people know about The Monkees but having read ur fascinating story I got interested in their music. Thank you so much! With love, Galina- a Russian teacher of English.
First was Elvis, Davy Jones, and then Richard Marx for me. Like you I loved the Monkees. I loved Davy Jones. The clean fun was the Monkees. I will never forget Elvis or Davy Jones. Davy Jones was a big part of my teen years. Be at peace Davy Jones. Love Sandi Nida
Thank you, Richard. I still can’t believe Davy is gone and can’t stop crying. This was the best
tribute there could ever be because Davy loved performing so much and making people happy. The Davy/Monkees fans have been sharing it, so thanks for sharing your memories with us.
Thanks Richard for sharing what was such a sweet life moment for you. Amazing that you two crossed paths again at a regional airport in PA of all places that many years later. Jones sounded like a prince of a man. A great tribute.
Beautiful memoir, poignant post. Great tribute to a great man!
Beautiful beautiful story. His passing has sure touched a lot of people’s hearts. Your story is very special and by his kindness possibly made your dream a much deeper reality. Glad you had such a wonderful experience. It’s the little things we do for people that can turn into something big. Love to you and Cynthia.
You are so wonderful…!!
Big hug!
Do u still have the picture he drew for u? Can u Post it? I would live to see it.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories of a kind and gentle man. He will be greatly missed by all who loved him.
It’s hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well-live life.
Thank you for sharing this story, Richard. Your version of ‘I Wanna Be Free’ is so beautiful. It brought me to tears!
We are all saddened by Davy’s death. He was a great man who brought so much happiness to the world.
Nicely done, Richard! Davy is smiling right now!
Thanks for sharing your story Richard. I was privileged to run an australian fan club for David in the late 80′s (i was a huge fan in the 60′s too and went to the Monkees 68 concert) and found him to be a generous lovely man. I am also a big fan of yours, I went to a couple of your concerts down here in Melbourne at the Palais. You also seem to be a genuine lovely man and it is so touching your version of I Wanna Be Free. x
Lovely.
yeah. i know. still wont register. how can he be gone. how? wow… thanks for the article. hope you liked the bio on him on the bio channel.
Beautiful rendition of “I Wanna Be Free” and a touching story …Thank you for posting it.
The outpouring of love for Davy is truly appreciated by everyone who knew and worked with him.
Thank you, what a lovely tribute. Peace.
Richard,
Thank you for this tribute to David – one of my favorite songs and your version is beautiful. I didn’t know him well but I had several chances over the years to sit and visit with him as we have a mutual friend. He was with me just as with you, a sweet, gentle, kind soul. I loved him as a kid and adored him as an adult. It’s hard to believe he’s gone.
I also love your music and have since your early days. Most of all, I appreciate musicians who are good-hearted and real and caring; in that way, I put you and David in the same category. Keep it real.
Susan
Richard, thank you so much for this wonderful rendition of I Want to Be Free. It was a wonderful way to pay tribute to Davy. He will definately be missed not only by his family and friends but by the fans as well. He will always be loved and never forgotten.
Remarkable, thanx for the story and the song.
Thank you so much for sharing your memories of Davy with us, Richard. I was 6 in ’68, too, and he was my favorite, too. I had always heard how nice he was but never got the chance to meet him. Thank you for the wonderful tribute and singing his song, it brought tears to my eyes.
Thank you (((hugs)))
Sharon
Dear Mr. Marx,
Thank you for such a lovely tribute to Mr. Davy Jones. It touched my heart greatly because you are one of my favorite artist and it did my heart good to hear another artist speak so well of Mr. Jones who deserves, as far as I’m concerned, all the respect accorded to a true and dedicated artist. Therefore, I thank you. I’m sure that he heard you from up there in the heavens and smiled.
Best wishes,
Mary (A fellow heartbroken fan)
Thank you for a touching story. You were one lucky little boy! I enjoy your music.
Hi Richard,
Thank you so much for singing “I Want To Be Free”, which Davy Jones sung many times.
I, too, kind of grew up with Davy and the Monkees. He was always a favorite and then starting in the late 80′s you became a favorite artist too.
How awesome that my two most favorite of all artists were combined by your singing that song.
Truly, that has created a memory that I will treasure forever.
Thank you again,
Bev
What a beautiful story!
What wonderful memories and a heartfelt tribute. Thank you for sharing that.
What a wonderful story and beautiful song. This was incredibly heart-warming. Thank you for sharing and allowing us to live variously through your experiences.
Love,
Steph
I watched the video of “I Want to be Free” and was moved to tears. In part because Davy Jones died too young. Also though it was a beautiful rendition and a fine gift to someone you valued. Nothing can replace someone when they are gone. Good art though, no matter what form, can sure help.
Thank you for sharing this.
Carol Kennon
Albuquerque, NM
hey rm how are you i caught your show in wilmition de world cafe you talked me from distance it nice to see that your a real down to earth guy and see people worths of course davy jones was aswome and monkeys who can for get that i agree .that guy as you say steve conway i play some your stuff as well hey what is neil diamond doing?
Hi Richard,
I am so pleased you chose to share this story with us all. Davy was an inspiration to so many people from so many walks of life. I have to say I too am a huge Monkees fan and have been since I was about 5 years old. Your version of “I wanna be free” was beautiful truly beautiful. You are an incredible talent in your own right, but you don’t need me to tell you that. I feel honoured to be counted among those who admire you and also the Monkees.
Well Richard, keep up the good work. You too are an inspiration to so many. I love your work and your voice is really something.
Take care
Joolz
This brought tears to my eyes… this best remembrance I have read on Davy Jones.
I remember my kid brother asking me back at the height of the Monkees madness who was better – the Beatles or the Monkees … I have to admit I chose the latter.
thanks for sharing your wonderful story.
Louis
Richard, this was a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. I’m sure Davy would be very proud. God bless.
I should add that we have something in common: we both grew up listening to The Monkees. I remember that this song was one of my favorites, when I was a child in the 80′s.
Rest in peace, Davy.
Dear Richard: I am nearly 45 years old, and have had a lifelong love for Davy Jones since I was a little kid. I have also been an admiring fan of your’s since I first heard of you in the 80′s. I have seen you twice in concert, and hope to again sometime, as I think you are simply wonderful yourself. I stumbled upon your video tribute to Davy on YouTube, and upon watching it, immediately got goose bumps. Very beautiful, and very sweet. Thank you for your wonderful tribute, both in the song, and in your story about Davy. You are just as bit as wonderful, special, talented, and handsome as he was . The world is a much better place because people like YOU are in it. Much love, Ann Marie Scannura
Hi Richard,
Hi Mr. Marx
I am a music teacher here in eastern Ohio and was watching American Idol when they said Heejun Han was doing one of your songs, so I thought I had remembered someone say you had Grandparents that lived in our area at one time so I thought I would google your name to see if that was true or not. I didn’t find the info I was looking for, but I found your blog here. I loved your blog about Davy Jones. Mickey was my Monkees Idol, but I liked Davy too. It just goes to show that we never know how our lives will influence others and Davy was sure an influence on many of us. I love your music too. Thank you for your contribution to our world of music. May you continue to do so for many years to come.
Debbie McWilliams
What a sweet story, Richard! Thanks for sharing! You sounded beautiful singing his song. I’m sure he would be touched.
Thanks for sharing Richard. I miss Davy Jones.
Hi Richard,
Listening to a few of your tracks tonight & wondered what you’ve been up to. I love the way you keep your vlog up to date, a great way to be close to your fans. Your story about meeting Davy Jones as a child & then again at the airport is touching & sweet; a nice memory to have for sure. Your rendition of “I Wanna Be Free” is reverent & lovely. Nice tribute! Love to check out your solo show someday if I’m close enough… Big fan since the early days. Thanks for sharing your heart & talent, you’re inspiring to an old songwriter.
Best regards,
John
That’s a beautiful story. Like many others, I was shocked and saddened by the news of Davy Jones’ death. I didn’t grow up in the 60′s, (I was born in 1968, the same year The Monkees went off the air,) but I do have some fond memories of Davy Jones, nonetheless.
The first time I ever heard of Davy Jones, was in the mid-70′s when I was in grade school. I used to watch reruns of shows from the 60′s and early 70′s on weekday afternoons when I came home from school everyday. I watched shows like The Partridge Family, The Brady Bunch, My Three Sons, I Dream Of Jeannie, Love American Style, Gilligan’s Island, and, even though it was an older program, The Little Rascals. I remember the episode of The Brady Bunch called, “Getting Davy Jones.” That was the first time I ever saw Davy Jones, and as you’ve probably guessed, I thought he was very cute and talented. Several years later, (I think it was the late 90′s,) TVLand aired reruns of The Monkees, and I watched the show for the first time. It was a fun show, had a lot of great music, and good, wholesome, fun comedy. I sort of missed out on this special time when these mid-to-late 60′searly 70′s shows were still being made, due to the fact that I was born in 1968, so it was great to watch the reruns.
I have heard nothing but good things said about Davy Jones, and I wish I could have met him. Judging by what I’ve read about him, he was a genuinely nice guy who was always happy, smiling, and jovial, and loved to laugh. I understand that he was a good friend of David Cassidy, who played Keith Partridge on The Partridge Family. (I love David Cassidy, too!)
Davy Jones was, and still is, loved by many, and I know he will be missed. Rest in peace, Davy. We love you.
I am a huge your fan! I love you very much!
Thank you so much for this beautiful tribute to Davy Jones, and for sharing your memories.
Dear Mr. Marx,
What a beautiful memory. Your rendition is amazing; if only it could get on the radio. Always a fan!
Richard,
What a very touching tribute to a man who deserves it. You actually made me cry. Some artists I have supported over the years sometimes have lost their moral compass and I have to remind myself from time to time why I should continue to buy their records and see them in concert when I have lost my respect for them. Davy was NEVER one of those artists. And what I admire about you is that just when I think you could not earn any more of my respect (your respect bank is full) you do or say something that over fills it (your tribute). Indeed, your character matches your music – A+ all the way around! See you in Georgia on July 14th!
Calvin
This is the best Davy Jones story I’ve heard in the weeks since his death. Thank you for sharing it so affectionately. I can tell in the video you are still moved by the news as we all are.
Wow!…..I actually have shivers from reading that…. This is a most special story I’ve heard in connection with Davy’s passing because I’m a fan of BOTH he and Richard Marx. Davy was a huge part of my early elementary years and he’s had a special place in my heart ever since. Hearing about his death felt like a part of me had died, too. The childhood crush never left me….and I don’t see myself getting over this loss, any time soon. Some people just touch you like that…and I am not surprised that Davy touched many others in the same way. Hearing the story about not one, but two much-admired idols in my life and the way their lives intertwined when Richard was a small boy and then a famous man himself, is something I will look to for comfort when I’m thinking about Davy’s passing. Thank you for this story!
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